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Compassion Is The Answer, But What Is The Question?

by: grannyhelen

Mon May 19, 2008 at 08:00:00 AM EDT


No one event triggered this devolution, but it undeniably was pushed along many times by the moral relativism of the last 50 years, when most of society's widely accepted norms were undermined by the quicksand of nonjudgmentalism; when the concepts of right and wrong, good and bad, were abolished in favor of differences that were to be respected if not celebrated, and codified when necessary to surmount widespread public opposition.

Paradoxically, people and institutions whose beliefs do not permit them to tolerate the most abhorrent differences were judged to be evil. Through rigid enforcement of increasingly fascist speech and thought codes, relativists turned America into a nation of lip-biters who with their silence condoned as normal behaviors and beliefs that are irrefutably unnatural and inherently immoral.

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No, the [recent California Supreme Court] ruling merely answered homosexuals' purely emotional plea for cultural acceptance by giving civil unions their proper label - "marriage" - the will of Californians, as democratically expressed twice, and the dark societal consequences be damned.

--Editorial in the May 17, 2008 Waterbury Republican.

link: http://www.rep-am.com/articles...

Anyone who regularly reads my blogs probably thought to log in and find the latest news from Myanmar, or of the earthquake in China.

But today I want to write about something that underpins almost every headline here and abroad: human suffering. The answer on how to understand human suffering has been written about and expounded upon by far more eloquent and profound people than me. Everyone from Martin Luther King, to Gandhi, to the Dalai Lama agrees that compassion is the ultimate answer.

But what is the question?

grannyhelen :: Compassion Is The Answer, But What Is The Question?
Is the question what type of vitriol lurks in the heart of the writer of the above referenced editorial from the local Waterbury, Connecticut newspaper? Or should we cast our net wider, and examine the individual's comments through the lens of history, looking at the oft-employed go-to knee jerk of scapegoating a minority group in a time of economic downturn?

Maybe we should throw the net wider still, and ask why some societies insist on passing laws that attempt to limit which consenting adults should be allowed to marry, or which women should be allowed to conceive, or how many times, or with whom. Maybe we should ask aloud why some societies demand that an intensely private and personally spiritual matter such as abortion should be taken away from the individual woman affected out of deference to a microscopic potential for life, when these same folks demand that their politicians "talk tough", execute prisoners and torture detainees.

And, in our free and democratic society where we are allowed the luxury to speak our minds without fear that we may be imprisoned, or our families harrassed, maybe we should ask why an unfettered press would obsess on every single detail of a candidate's hair or dress, or loop quotes from his pastor taken out of context while disease and starvation haunt the survivors of a deadly cyclone. Is our capacity to view human suffering limited? Do we simply "max out", unable to handle the duality of watching dead bodies floating in rice fields while we calmly sit in front of our computers and television screens, cold beer in one hand and bowl of chips in the other?

We click, we watch, we move on, we escape. Sometimes the escape comes through comedies (I must admit, this is my own favorite form of fleeing the world when it becomes too much). Sometimes through other forms of fictional entertainment. Maybe the trainwreck of the World's Worst American Idol Singer allows the brain to numb, blocking the outside world.

Sometimes the escapes take a nastier turn. Conflating a nation's government with the people who happen to live in that nation, some folks escape into the heated world of propaganda, where every slight to the National Leader is a sin, and every criticism of national policy is turned into a lost opportunity to laud Our Brave Men And Women In Uniform.

And sometimes the escape turns to hatred of a group of folks you've never met, or with whom you've only shared a passing acquaintence. Suddenly these men and women, who love their lifetime partners, who have siblings and parents and children to care for, become The Enemy, Bent On The Destruction Of You And Everything You Hold Dear. Sharpen the pitchforks, light your torches because we're goin' after the Evil Doers.

Why do we do this to each other? What is it about humanity that defends the injustice in the name of protecting the folks that are on the receiving end of the suffering caused by injustice?

Does the Why even matter?

Maybe it isn't about the question at all, but simply about the answer:

True compassion is more than flinging a coin to a beggar. It comes to see that an edifice which produces beggars needs restructuring.

--Martin Luther King, Jr.

If you're reading this blog, it's more likely than not because you understand the inherent truth in what King is saying. We are activists because we understand that the ediface needs restructuring, and yet...

And yet...

We are imperfect humans, caught up in the every day just as assuredly as any media pundit.

How to not take our eye off the ball, then, really becomes the central question. How is that singularity of mind achieved? That, I believe, may be the hardest question of all.

I know at this point I'm supposed to pull some type of inspirational quote from some revered philosopher about how to achieve that exact goal. A short, satisfying article generally carries a problem-solution format, after all.

But I have no such wisdom to offer.

The most I can ask you (and me) to do is to look inside, every day, and ask, "What can I do today to affect change?" Instead of attempting monumental - and sometimes Sisyphean - tasks, maybe small, daily actions are the way to both focus the mind and achieve the goal.

Please keep all of the people who are suffering, in Burma, in China and across our small, blue planet in your thoughts, prayers and meditations.

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Obviously the "Waterbury Republican" (3.00 / 6)
Doesn't have a clue on the concept of "Equal Rights".
"Homosexual's purely Emotional plea" ??? Cringes.
Would they have said the same thing to those African Americans in North Carolina and elsewhere who could have not married outside their Race until 1972? Or is the GLBT just a group of second class citizens who are supposed to just deal with Taxation without fair representation under the Law as afforded by those Equal Rights.

The only "Emotional Plea" that I see is coming from the Waterbury Republican's Editorial staff. Degrading and Condescending and Inflammatory to boot.

I don't ask for Compassion or Pity, I do demand Equal Rights as an American Citizen and not to be treated as a piece of sh**,because of my gender preference.

Separate and not equal is not acceptable under any circumstances. Martin Luther King understood this concept, hopefully enlightenment will come some day to the knuckle draggers who feel that their way is the only way, as they stand on their faulty pedestal looking down upon others that they feel are less equal or deserving.
Rant never ends because the hositility and hatred never ends.

Thanks for this Diary grannyhelen.


(-8.50/-7.44) "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion." Dalai Lama


Thank you, Predictor... (3.00 / 5)
...and that was exactly my point in bringing this up - laws restricting gay folks from marrying their lifetime partners is as wrong-headed as the Nazis using forced sterilization against women because of their race or economic status, or - as you cited - in the South against inter-racial marriages among heterosexuals.

I think if folks concentrated more on understand each other - as individuals - a lot of this "outrage" would just go the way of the dodo.


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Here in rural North Carolina where I work (3.00 / 7)
(thank goodness I live in a very Democratic and liberal area of the State) I am known as the resident Progressive and all of the Republicans come to me with their "see what you guys have done" statements when anything that doesn't fit their narrowly envisioned way of life.  
Needless to say, they are getting quite an education these past three years since I began working here  ;-)

The day after the CA Supremes came down with this ruling, my office was pretty busy with discussion on this topic.

Firstly, they didn't realize that it was Republican Appointed Judges that voted for this.  I explained to them that the Judges were doing their job, only.  Upholding the letter of the law contained within the California Constitution.  I further explained that if our US Supremes would do the same instead of making up sh**, they would see a lot more in the way of equality in our country.

The discussion always came back to two things.  Do you believe in equality for all people?  Do you want the Government in YOUR bedroom?  As an aside, why do you care what other people do in their bedrooms?

They are getting quite an education here in rural North Carolina.

I have been thinking that I would make a proposition to my Republican friends... that if they will stop telling lies about the Democrats, we will stop telling the truth about them.
Adlai Stevenson


I'm glad you're giving it to them.... (3.00 / 5)
I've had many conversations with Republicans and moderate Dems on the issue of gay marriage. If you make it all about equal rights, they really can't win the argument. In their opposition to gay marriage, they are in fact saying that they do not believe their fellow citizens deserve the same rights because they are gay.  

Netroots Director for Oregon Senate Candidate Jeff Merkley

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I'm glad you're there... (3.00 / 4)
...it's another part of the equasion: speaking up, and not just to the choir ;-)

It can be hard to engage folks sometimes, but I get the feeling you're doing an excellent job.

Keep up the good work!


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you nail one of my deeply held personal beliefs right on the head... (3.00 / 7)
The most I can ask you (and me) to do is to look inside, every day, and ask, "What can I do today to affect change?" Instead of attempting monumental - and sometimes Sisyphean - tasks, maybe small, daily actions are the way to both focus the mind and achieve the goal.

One person's action, when combined with another person's, and another's, etc... creates collective action and that is what can lead to change....

it is a somewhat Sisyphean task though - but hey, pushing that rock uphill every day was good exercise...  :D

--poligirl

(-5.75,-4.92) "Compromise sounds a lot like capitulation, doesn't it?" --Elizabeth Edwards


I don't deal with many Repubs here (3.00 / 5)
in liberal Portland. However, I do deal with anarchists and other cynics who believe no one can make any sort of difference because the government is corrupt. It's a common line of thinking here and it's really sad IMO. They want things to change but don't believe it can happen within government. So, they sit by and do nothing and nothing changes.

Netroots Director for Oregon Senate Candidate Jeff Merkley

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It rolls back down, we push it up... (3.00 / 4)
...it just keeps going and going. But I think the rolls down get progressively smaller and smaller. Or at least I hope so - I'm an optimist ;-)

[ Parent ]
i too share your optimism... :D (3.00 / 3)


(-5.75,-4.92) "Compromise sounds a lot like capitulation, doesn't it?" --Elizabeth Edwards

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What utter hogwash by Waterbury Republican (3.00 / 6)


We've had the answer since we were kids. (3.00 / 2)
Doesn't anyone remember the Golden Rule?

"I know at this point I'm supposed to pull some type of inspirational quote from some revered philosopher about how to achieve that exact goal. A short, satisfying article generally carries a problem-solution format, after all."

No fancy philosophizing is required.

Every civilization, every culture, has had that same answer in some form or another. If, for a change, people actually paid heed to what it means, there'd be no need for this blog (or any other) to point it out.

I do my best to treat others the way I would like to be treated. It doesn't matter what other people do. In the final analysis, I'm the one responsible for my own actions.


Excellent point... (3.00 / 2)
...thanks for making it :-)

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